Title: Will a hacker have a girlfriend?

Maybe everyone has a hacker dream! I dream that I, like the hacker in the movie, can control everything with a quiet keyboard and control everything thousands of miles away before the screen. And is it really good to be a hacker? I won't answer this question yet, because you know, too? Just use it as a hobby! This article is about whether Da Heikuo has a girlfriend? Talk about your own point of view!

First of all, this article does not apply to the second generation of official and rich second generation. If you are, please ignore this article.

Before the screen, you are also in your youth in your youth and in your struggle. As a veteran, my cousin told me about his views on the things around him. My cousin, I live in a small county town in the northwest, living a five-to-nine-year-old work life. After working, I shared some knowledge about network security and met many friends who like network security. Then many friends asked me, is there a fortune in cybersecurity? Will there be a girlfriend?

I'll tell you the answer here

Money==Having a girlfriend==Having a wife

Yes, my answer may make you feel uncomfortable. Will you still have feelings? So what can you do in the face of reality today?

Just about the matter around my cousin, several of my friends are almost 30 years old and are at the age of discussing marriage. After a few girlfriends on blind dates, they ended up having a bad time. It's nothing more than a woman asking for a car or a house. In fact, in my opinion, it is not that the woman is too realistic, but that society has reached this point, just like we cannot do without smartphones. Besides, if you marry your daughter, would you compromise with reality?

Actually, in my opinion. The ultimate main problem is the work problem! Maybe you will say, I am a programmer, I am a big black man. I earn 400,000 yuan per month, so I tell you that in the eyes of adults, awesome programmers are just computer repairs. In the eyes of parents, civil servants (staffing) government departments have stable jobs (teachers, doctors) company bosses work and unemployed vagrants (big Heikuo)

So the end of the work is the establishment, especially in the context of the epidemic. Is the establishment not popular?

Even a senior programmer can make a living from youth. After the age of 40, you will either be promoted to management or change careers.

After talking about the work, let’s talk about housing prices!

Regarding housing prices, I dare not talk too much about my opinion. Because I am also a person in the bureau, I don’t know which year or month it will end every month. Take our small county town as an example, the average house price is 5,500-6,300/square meter. I dare not mention the housing prices in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. If it is a 100 square meter apartment, the bare house price alone will cost about 60,000 yuan. Loans based on 0.25% of the housing provident fund. Pay a down payment of 200,000 yuan and a loan of 400 yuan. The loan will be 100,000 yuan in interest for 15 years. The decoration is calculated at 150,000 yuan, which means that if you find a girlfriend to get married, the house will cost (200,000 yuan down payment + 150 yuan decoration) to solve the problem of the wedding house. Leave the rest to time to digest.

Let's talk about the bride price after talking about the housing price

Borrow gifts are inevitable for every big black man who talks about marriage. The dowry varies from person to person depending on the region, the degree of education of parents, and different places. The big cousin's bride price is 8.8w-40w from town to rural areas. This is also a lot of money for ordinary families.

As for the car, everyone knows it well, so I won’t mention it here.

Of course, for the premise of the above mentioned things, you must have a girlfriend who can talk about marriage. As a big heikuo, you don’t even have a girlfriend, so don’t mention the above.

The main reasons are as follows:

A lot of time spent finding loopholes. I have been with computers and mobile phones for a long time and lacked communication, especially with the opposite sex. Long-term viewing of computers and mobile phones can cause baldness and high myopia of eyes. He does not pay attention to appearance, does not shave his beard, and wears the same clothes for three years. When I have money, I only know how to buy a 3090Ti graphics card, but I don’t know how to spend money to buy gifts. Being with computers for a long time will lead to a withdrawn and introverted personality. To sum up, become a big black man. I want to find a sexy and beautiful girlfriend as my wife. It can be said that it is even more difficult. Unless the family conditions are very good, that is, either the second generation of officials or the second generation of rich people, you can consider it carefully. Otherwise, my cousin will advise you that network security can only be regarded as an interest in learning and research, and it cannot be used as a main business.